How to Make Custom Kraft Bags for your Wedding Candy Buffet

How to Customize Bags for your Candy Buffet!

While we did not have a candy bar or treat buffet at our wedding we did serve a treat called a cake ball. Not a cupcake or a cake pop but HUGE cake balls in five different flavors. Knowing we would be serving a heavy meal at dinner we anticipated guests might want to take treats home instead of eating them at the wedding. I also knew we would have a TON left over so we wanted guests to take as much of the desserts home as possible. I did not want to use just plain old bags so I thought stamping them would be fun! Here is a short tutorial on how I made custom bags for my dessert table!

 

Here is a list of what you will need:

* Mini Kraft Bags - Purchased from Amazon in Kraft/Brown paper (they also made them in white)

* A Rubber Stamp

* Ink Pad 

* Cardboard cut from a cereal box

I got a pack of 100 bags and I stamped them all. On the first few I did, I did not put anything inside the bags - I just stamped them on the table. As it turned out, this was the incorrect way to go about it...

Now, this was NOT me over zealously pushing the inked stamp onto the paper. After I evenly inked the stamp I pressed it onto the paper but the pattern did not come out "straight". As you can see it was missing in some areas at the bottom and was too heavy at the top. This was due to the fact that the bottom of the bag is folded and the crease caused the irregularity.

 

This was my solution to the problem! I cut up two hard cardboard pieces of a candy box but you could use a cereal or cracker box. I cut two pieces just big enough to slide inside a closed kraft bag.

I slid the cardboard into the closed bag like so, and this gave me a nice flat surface to stamp on! The trick to stamping all the bags was to evenly coat the stamp and also blot it out on some paper towels from time to time to keep the build-up of ink at bay. I had recurring bird decor in my wedding so I chose a very detailed branch with birds stamp. In hindsight, a simpler stamp would probably been much easier to use.

I was very happy with how these turned out. The size of each bag was also perfect since they comfortably held two cake balls and still had room at the top to fold over. I made 100 of these but honestly I think only 20 were taken and used. We had a TON of cake left over so we invited our guests to please take another serving.

I had several people ask me months after the wedding were I got the bags because they are really perfect for candy bars at birthday parties and weddings. I purchased these from Amazon for $6.00. These are truly mini bags; they are only 3 inches wide by 6 inches tall. In terms of time spent on this project it felt like it took absolutely forever to make all these. If I had used an easier, less intricate stamp it would have gone much quicker. If I had to do it over again I probably would have used a nice printed sticker or glued something onto the bag instead of using a rubber stamp. On the other hand the stamp I used was the perfect size for these bags and they turned out really pretty.

How To Make Rustic Woodsy Boutonnieres For Your Wedding

I was dead set on making several...and I mean SEVERAL items for my wedding. I have always been a crafty person, and I used my wedding as a showcase of my talents. I honestly never gave much thought to what my wedding would look like until about 6 months after I became engaged. That was when I decided I wanted a woodsy/natural theme with green, brown, and gold. While these are not typical wedding colors, I wanted to incorporate as many natural elements as possible given our wooded venue. All these great ideas went flying through my mind of all the things I could make and do...when it hit me...all the questions hit me.

How much did I want to put into this? Did we need lots of decor? Was I going to save money doing DIY versus purchasing? Did I have a theme? Would any of this look stupid or out of place? Did it all have to "match"? Would my fiance hate this stuff? Was anyone going to notice all the hard work I put into all of this?

Would I have TIME to do ANY of this!?!?!?!

My fiance (now husband) and I were engaged for about 22 months before our wedding. In that span of time we both changed jobs, bought a house and moved, we suffered some family losses, took vacations, and adopted pets. Somehow in the middle of all this, I was able to find time to make some pretty cool stuff. Most of the things I made utilized items I purchased from craft stores and took very little time to make. I thought by taking pictures and doing some simple tutorials I might help some other future brides out! Before I begin my tutorial I will say that the things I made were absolutely worth it. While I am sure only a few people noticed all the hard work I put into the decor, I was very proud of what I was able to create.

How to make Boutonnieres:

This is a list and approximate cost of the items I bought for this project and what you will need:


* A bag of thin, wood craft sticks - 50% off at Hobby Lobby - $2.00
* Ribbon - I used two kinds $1.99 each from Michael's Crafts
* Hemp cord - I had some left over but it is about $8.00 a roll new
* Feathers - the ones that were bound at the bottom were $1.99 a package at Meijer Grocery
* Plastic fern fronds or other greenery - these were $4.99 a bunch at Michael's
* Box of FLAT back bar pins - $2.99 at Michael's
* Small gold flowers - $0.99 at Hobby Lobby (I bought 3 bunches for this project)
* Green & clear wired gems - $3.99 at Michael's
* Small pine cones - free from my yard
* Glue gun and glue
* Clear Tape

Now, when I bought these items I did use some of the stuff for other wedding projects (they will be seen again in other tutorials) but when it was all said and done these honestly cost about $3.25 a piece and I believe I ended up with 7 boutonnieres. I had coupons for some items and I bought things on sale when I could. I also bought some other craft items that I did NOT end up using which I figured into my overall cost.

The feathers I purchased were bound at the base which proved to be a HUGE money and time saver. If I had purchased a small craft bag of pheasant feathers and the longer ostrich feathers, together that would have cost me over $14.00. I only spent $4.00 on two packages that contained 4 "stems" of feathers each. I also lucked out on the super realistic fern fronds at Michael's Crafts. They came in a "bunch" that I was able to separate into 10 individual fronds. They were also made of a rubbery material so they looked and felt more real.

You could also save some money if you already have ribbon you like or pins laying around. I wanted a specific green hue to match the ferns. The same goes for the flowers I chose; the ones I purchased at Hobby Lobby come in probably 10 different colors of the same style so you can personalize for your own color scheme.

I also "splurged" and bought these "gems" that were wired together in a bunch that I separated into small clusters.

I started out separating the tiny flowers into groups of 5-7 and twisting the wires together to keep them in a "bunch" (see the picture but ignore the loud table cloth I was working over). I then picked out a single craft stick, a piece of the wired gems, and one feather cluster. Using the craft stick as a sturdy base, I used clear tape to tape down the feather first, then the small flower bunch, and a wired gem piece (see below).

Please note the tape will NOT be seen, it is just there to hold everything in place!

I then took a fern frond and cut it to the length I wanted - I wanted the feathers to stand just a bit taller and to the opposite side of the frond. I then secured this to the craft stick with a bit more clear tape.

I then took a bar pin and taped this onto the back again with tape. Using a secure bar pin was a personal preference. I know most boutonnieres are secured with a single, long, straight pin but I did not want the possibility of them shifting or falling off. On the wedding day the men were also able to easily figure out how to put them on their jackets without incident and they stayed on all day.

Although I could not adequately photograph this process, this is the next step. Using a dab of hot glue I secured hemp cord to the back of the craft stick. I then wrapped the cord over all the tape all the way down to where I wanted the base to stop. I wanted the "look" to resemble a little basket holding flowers. Using scissors I then cut the craft stick where I wanted the boutonniere to stop and I glued the hemp to the base. I then cut the hemp cord from the bottom and "smooshed" the end to secure any loose frays of cord. I then tied a simple ribbon around the middle of the "stem" and glued a tiny pine cone on the side.

Ta Da! I then repeated this with all the other boutonnieres. The one I made for my husband was slightly different and more complicated because I incorporated a large copper pea pod earring into the center.

Overall I was THRILLED with how these turned out and how easy they were to make. After I had everything sorted out I was able to make all of these in about one hour.

As you can see they matched perfect with the green in the bottles I used for my cake table (I will show the bottle transformation in another tutorial).

On the big day they actually looked AMAZING - they looked expensive, polished, and they matched the green and gray tuxes the men wore perfectly. That being said, I was SO BUMMED about two things: After I told my husband MULTIPLE times to not forget to put them on, they FORGOT. Thank GOD my awesome brother was on hand to chase the men down, and they had to scramble right before the ceremony to get them on. They were literally putting them on 5 minutes before we walked down the aisle. That being said, I was thankful I decided to use the bar pins instead of straight pins!

The men were able to figure out how to get the boutonnieres on without sticking themselves and they all stayed where they were supposed to stay! The other thing I was bummed about was due to the men's pictures being done before the ceremony, I sadly did not get a professional picture of the boutonnieres close up.

All in all the men looked damn nice and all fancy with their boutonnieres and pocket squares. On a side note the men's looks all came from Men's Warehouse. I put my husband in charcoal and the groomsmen in light gray - all were tuxedos. 

My brother was a HUGE help the morning of the wedding (it was beyond hectic)! He had me help him with his boutonniere and the shirt studs. Apparently, none of the groomsmen knew how shirt studs worked either but luckily they figured them out on their own.

In my other tutorials I will show how I made my table numbers, bottles for the tables, cake stands, corsages, menu boards, a large arch swag, center pieces, and more!

State & City Park Weddings - The Good, Bad, & The Ugly Regarding Rules

The Blanton House

After painstakingly going through list after list of venues located in Indiana, I was really concerned we would not find something that would "fit us." We looked at several barn venues first. But, there were so many issues with one barn venue or another that we decided to abandon that option pretty quickly. I wrote all about our adventures with barns in this blog post. I literally went through all the venue lists on The Knot, Wedding Wire, and Rustic Bride trying to find a venue that was suitable, affordable, and available. I even found this obscure website that listed all the state and city parks (I cannot even find it now but it looked like it was made in Windows 95).

Whatever we eventually came up with, I was dead set on NOT using a country club; locally most people use one of the country clubs because there really is no other option. So, we started exploring city and state parks. My fiance and I are outdoorsy people to the core. We hike and geocache almost every weekend in the summer so it makes sense for us to have an outdoor woodsy wedding.

Angel Canary Photography

The first place I thought of was Mounds State Park. My fiance and I spend many weekends here in the summer since it is only about 10 minutes from my house. This park is also where we had several of our first dates when we first started seeing each other. Mounds offers a very small building you can rent that I knew from the beginning would not be big enough.

However, when I was searching online I found this picture of a tent (pictured right) erected in the yard adjacent to the party building. This photographer's blog has dozens of pictures from this couple's wedding that took place in Mounds Park. This picture and many others show they were able to use the historic home on site to get ready, the use of the enclosed party building, and they were also able to rent a tent and chairs. I thought this would be SO PERFECT! This was until we called Mounds...

It took a few calls before we got a hold of someone who could give us the skinny on having a wedding at the park. Apparently, the couple who got married at the park (where all the lovely pictures came from) were given the "celebrity treatment" because at the time, they WORKED THERE. The girl we spoke to was snippy on the phone when we told her we found pictures online of a tent and chairs and use of the historic home, and we wondered if that was part of their wedding package. You could tell by the tone of the person we spoke to that other people had seen the photographers pictures online and called the park thinking they would be able to rent the same amenities too.

Olry Photography

At Mounds, there is no such thing as a "wedding package" and the girl on the phone wanted to know where these photos were found (as if she could force them to be removed from the internet). At Mounds, you CANNOT have a tent erected anywhere, you CANNOT have a company truck bring in chairs for outside, you CANNOT have any access whatsoever to the historic building or even the nature center to get ready in (so there is NO place to get ready), and you CANNOT prepay for cars to come in to park (everyone without a state park pass has to pay $5 or $7 to get in).

Basically, everything featured in these photos was a major no-no and no "real person" could ever do the same at the park. We were told we could bring in chairs in a pickup truck or "personal van" but we could not have something like a local rental company come and bring them in inside their box truck...How ridiculous! However, when we started to call other parks they too had some really, and I mean REALLY bizarre rules and regulations.

Here is a list of some of the problems we ran into:

Flush the Fashion

NO Alcohol or weird alcohol rules.

Probably half of the parks we contacted did not allow alcohol, but you have to basically call each place individually to get the rundown on alcohol. Some allowed beer, but no hard liquor. Some allowed you to have beer in cans, but absolutely no glass bottles. Some said we could have beer, but we would have to PUT TAPE ON EVERY SINGLE CAN so no one "could tell from a distance" that it was beer (this was a specific rule at Mounds Park)...Some allowed alcohol but we had to use a bartender of their choice.

Some allowed alcohol but as long as we had a permit on file (you have to BUY THIS from the state) we could use whatever licensed bartender we wanted. At the venue we chose, they are allowing us to use whatever bartender we want and we can have them serve beer, wine, and hard liquor but we will have to use ALL plastic drinking vessels. MOST PARKS do NOT allow you to use real glass glasses for drinking because if they break, kids can step on them and get hurt.

MAOG Meet Up

NO candles, sparklers, bonfires, BBQ smokers, etc.

Most people know parks have signs EVERYWHERE that prohibit the starting of a fire outside a designated fireplace or ring/pit. This same rule applies for a wedding. HOWEVER, some of the parks do not even allow you to start a bonfire if you are having a wedding on site. Why? They are afraid someone will start it then leave it unattended. One of the parks I looked at said if you are hosting an event that has more than 30 people, you have to get someone from the fire department or the head of the boy scout camp to come and supervise whatever fire you have for the entire duration of your party. Some parks only allow bonfires at designated campsites or community fire pit as well.

Unfortunately, people are irresponsible - plain and simple - especially if they have been drinking. Keep in mind as well that you cannot use candles that light with a flame or sparklers/fireworks for the same reason. Many of the venues we looked at do not allow candles PERIOD even if you are renting an enclosed building. Some parks go even further and will not allow you to have a BBQ smoker on site for catering.

Dpnak

NO throwing or releasing of anything.

At the venue we chose the manager was very specific about what we could "throw" and what we could not. For one, if we are using flower petals in the yard they must be 100% real. This means no polyester fake petals AND NO "biodegradable" paper either. The biodegradable petals do not disintegrate, plan and simple. They just become trash that the birds can eat and it can kill them. You also cannot throw rice anymore either - it will kill birds because if they eat it, it will expand and explode their stomachs.

Some venues said no sprinkles either - it causes ants and bees to invade. Most places will also not allow you to use glitter, any kind of confetti, silly string, or anything that will become "waste". Most places will allow you to use bubbles or birdseed however. You can also release butterflies in most parks but some are specific about doves so you will have to ask. Oh, In speaking of "throwing", most city and state parks have pack out policies. Any trash you bring in must be taken with you in trash bags you provide when you leave. So all those bags full of paper plates and half eaten burgers will have to go home with you after the wedding!

Middle of the Map Weddings

How and when you rent and reserve.

Most of these park venues do NOT allow you to rent them in advance. Much like a park-run campground, you have to either call or in some situations you must PHYSICALLY GO TO THE PARK to reserve an enclosed building or a pavilion. We had an RV when I was a kid and I remember getting up at the crack of dawn on a Wednesday or Thursday before school to go to a park to reserve a campsite for the weekend. Weddings are no different.

Some of the places we looked into tell you that you must wait one year to the day to either call or come to the park to SEE IF THEY ARE AVAILABLE. There is ZERO guarantee! Some of the parks also let it slip that they give special permission to city workers, donors, friends of park employees, boy scouts, schools, etc. So, basically if you want a very popular or specific weekend for your wedding, you probably will not get it.

Other parks will only allow you to come the DAY OF your event or the day before to reserve a pavilion or gazebo. If this is the case, you will need a family member, day of coordinator, or a groomsman - someone to hightail it to the park very early to reserve it. It is also NOT FREE to reserve a pavilion at some parks. This can be a catch 22 type situation because of how this is handled. Say for example you are getting married over Memorial Day weekend and you want use of a specific pavilion for the reception. Other park guests might come and be at the park early to set up their BBQ/family reunion at a pavilion without reserving it. So, you might be at the gate paying your rental fee like you are supposed to and when you get to "your" pavilion, there might already be a party in progress.

We actually saw this happen in Brown County this past October. We were hiking and heard a HUGE spat going down. A horse drawn carriage and about 30 cars arrived at a pavilion located next to the water. An older man (probably the bride's father) was screaming and waving their park permit at a Hispanic family that was holding a full blown Quinceanera with over 50 guests. We watched the spectacle for about 15 minutes and no one from the park came to help. It was obvious neither family was going to budge...

DNR Illinois

Lack of security, supervision, or other issues.

Never forget that parks are public spaces. Just because it is obvious someone is holding a wedding in a particular area of a park does not mean people will not sneak in or possibly cause a problem. The DNR are not your personal security! In fact, if you are having more than 100 people in attendance, it might be a good idea to hire an off duty police officer to watch over the party - in particular the gifts. It seems like every day you hear about cards and gifts getting stolen at weddings. It would be very easy for someone to slip in and out of a busy park unnoticed with your card box in their backpack.

You also have to take into account that other activities might be taking place at the park during your wedding. We go to parks all the time. Every now and then a marathon will take place and you cannot find a parking space in the whole park. It could be Boy Scout day and 200 ten-year-olds might be running around. The SWAT team might be doing diving training in the creek and they will be screaming (some are obscene) as they recover "bodies" from the water. People can also accidentally stumble upon your wedding - then proceed to walk through it because they do not know where the tail head is located. I must admit we did this on accident at the IMA when we visited their garden center on what was apparently also prom day. There were so many young ladies in fancy dresses with eager parents snapping photos we were trying to stay out of their way when we accidentally walked directly behind an officiant conducting a wedding...oops!  

Robert & Kathleen Photography

Limitations on tents and decorations.

Some of the parks we looked at stated under no circumstances could anyone use crepe paper streamers or balloons as decorations. These two items can blow or float away easily so that is understandable. One park said you could not use shepherd hooks that go into the ground. Many do not allow you to attach anything to the pavilions with tape, nails, or staples and instead you have to use twine. Many parks simply do not allow any "attached" decor at all (centerpieces are usually just fine).

Ultimately these rules are in place because people make a mess and certain things can really harm animals. Like I said before, most parks do not even have trash cans anymore because they have adopted a "pack out" policy. My fiance and I always take a trash bag with us when we hike because we volunteer to pack out whatever anyone else was too lazy to take with them to throw away themselves.

Many parks will not allow you to use tents either. Like I said before in regards to Mounds, if the tent has to be staked into the ground, most will not allow it. Keep in mind any large tent (like you use for a wedding) will need to be staked into the ground for stability. Some allow small popup style tents like caterers use. However, aside from the venue we chose that provides a tent, all the other parks we looked at had a strict "no tent policy" or a tent placement rule where they had to be in a certain spot. LIGHTING is another issue! Parks are NOT OPEN at night! Because of this, they are not illuminated. While some parks will allow you to stay until the late evening, make sure you have lights available and the electricity to use them. Most parks will allow you to use Christmas or cafe lights in pavilions since they can be easily draped and subsequently removed, but make sure you ask the park and have ample outlets!

Elizabeth Ann Designs

Music is another issue. Some parks do not care if you have a DJ - some will not allow you to have one at all. Strict sound ordinances are enforced by most parks in regards to how loud the music is across the board. Parks are peaceful places, and you must think not everyone will enjoy you blasting dance music in the early afternoon.

You have to keep in mind as well a park pavilion might not have any electricity (or appropriate number of plug ins) for a DJ to hook anything into. While some parks will allow you to have an string quartet or a band, again the rules and sound decibel limit will vary from park to park. Usually if the park allows music, you typically have to have it off by 10:00 or 11:00 PM. Never forget when you have a wedding at a park, it is not your private domain! Be respectful of park guests, any other bride that might be holding a wedding at the same time, and take care not to harm or damage the plants and animals.

MAJOR perks to having a park wedding:

Aside from some funky rules, ultimately parks really are great places to hold weddings. For one, you really do not need any decor - let the woods, water, and nature be your canvas. There is plenty of parking and usually they have handicapped accessible bathrooms. Parks are also very casual so you do not get that stuffy, hoity vibe you sometimes get from country clubs. If you think your guests will get bored, they can hike a trail, bring their fishing equipment, or snap some nature photos. Parks are also SUPER kid friendly! They have amazing playground equipment to keep them entertained or you can send them across the way to play kickball or tag. If you do not mind your guests sitting at picnic tables, seating will not be a problem so you do not have to rent anything extra for that.

Persimmon Images

Most parks are also very cheap to rent - that goes for pavilions and enclosed buildings. And if you need an event permit they are usually less than $100 depending on where you have your wedding (the park we chose does not require an extra event permit). There is also a major perk if the park has an eatery where they can cater your meal so you will not even have to deal with finding an outside caterer. If the park has cabins or camping, your guests can book one and make a weekend getaway out of the wedding, or your grandparents might want to bring their RV for the whole week and take a nice stroll down to your wedding. Your photos will be AMAZING! You will probably not have a waitstaff hovering around you the whole wedding and the whole thing can be very much about family.

Ultimately, we chose a park venue for the outdoor capabilities. I wanted that "in the middle of the woods" feel but with modern amenities like a tent in case it rained, ample lighting and electricity, modern bathrooms, a kitchen for the caterer, and formal tables and chairs. Our venue was more pricy due to them having all those amenities but I feel it will be totally worth it. On a side note, I cannot wait until May to revisit our venue so I can give a glowing review!